My heart sometimes hurts because I won’t let go of things or persons who no longer belong in my life. I want to hold on to a moment or a memory and cherish it for years to come. But growing means outgrowing people, relationships, and jobs, maybe even hobbies.
Is there something in your life you’ve been holding onto that no longer serves you? That no longer makes you feel all the things it once did? Do we stay and try to revive a dead heart or do we allow the ties to fall and release ourselves?
Yes it’s going to hurt you may be sad for the rest of your life when you think about the situation but did the separation bring new joy into your life? Did it bring new meaning?
As a libra I weigh the pros and cons and I dwell for hours on hours days on days months on months before making a final decision. And while that may seem frivolous with time I am usually ok with whatever comes next after the decision is made. It hurts so much to let go. But how much was it hurting you to hold on?
With Love,
Poetry With Me 
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